by cindy gallop (she doesnt actually want 2 presume 2 answer it on behalf of all womankind,instead she decided 2 list wat she wants 4 women) 1. i want women 2 overcome da tyranny of Looking for The One ~ 1 of d best days of my life was d day i stopped ‘Looking 4 d 1′. as women,we r brought up frm birth looking 4 d 1.u knw,d man who will b d luv of our life,whose luv will represent d pinnacle... moreby cindy gallop (she doesnt actually want 2 presume 2 answer it on behalf of all womankind,instead she decided 2 list wat she wants 4 women) 1. i want women 2 overcome da tyranny of Looking for The One ~ 1 of d best days of my life was d day i stopped ‘Looking 4 d 1′. as women,we r brought up frm birth looking 4 d 1.u knw,d man who will b d luv of our life,whose luv will represent d pinnacle of our lifetime achievement,wit whom we will live happily ever after. well,sum time back, i tot stuff like dis,i cannot describe 2 u d piece of mind ive experienced ever since. no more going 2 every social thinking, ‘will he be there?’ no more scanning a crowded room looking 4 him, no more despondently heading home later bcoz no, once again, he wasnt there. hw many of us emapthised wit Charlotte in Sex n d city when, at d end of yet another fruitless nite out, she said , ‘ive been dating since i was 16-im exhausted-where is he??’ so,im nw 48 n i hvnt met ‘d 1′.these days im a huge fans of on9 dating n goin out wit younger men - dats a whole other story n i continue 2 enjoy d relaxation of goin out socially but never looking for the ONE n when i look around me n see other women dressed up 2 d eyeballs,anxiously scanning d room,i want 2 say ‘NO! dnt do it! juz kick back,relax n hv a gud time! u’ll b so much happier..! 2. i want women never 2 see a man as all the financial strategy they need 3. i want women 2 think long n hard abt getting married b4 they actually do 4. i want women n men 2 b appreciated,valued n respected equally 4 their view page